Boyfriend making an impossible request?

First test already right out the gate I see. Welcome to the wonderful world of living together. All in all this is not a good idea. If he wants to be Mr. Nice Guy he needs to convince someone else to take up this mantle. Starting out will be tough enough with just the two of you but add some relatives and their input and you may just find yourselves at each others throat by years end. Stand your ground and don't feel bad about it. If this breaks you guys up then it wasn't meant to be.